Post a picture of something your spouse left you while he was away and how that helped you… did/do you carry it with you or sleep with it?
On Chris's first deployment, the Family Readiness Center gave me a little bag with a bunch of stuff in it. You can record stuff on the teddy bear, so Chris said a little message on it. I listen to it before bed every night. It helps because it's nice to hear his voice before I go to bed. It also came with a tiny little pillow thing, which is kinda cute.